In Loving Memory

Gary & Sheila Hathcox

June 6, 1943 — March 27, 2026 · November 25, 1949 — March 27, 2026
57 years together · Cedar Key, Florida
Gary and Sheila Hathcox
A Grandson's Tribute

Continuing Gary's Legacy

By Gary "Tripp" Drummond

My name is Gary "Tripp" Drummond. I am 18 years old, the son of Tracie and Frank Drummond, and the 3rd grandson of Gary and Sheila Hathcox.

For as long as I can remember, my grandfather had me on a boat. The water wasn't just where he worked — it was where he belonged. It was where he found peace, purpose, and joy. He often told me stories about commercial fishing to provide for my mom and my grandmother before the 1998 net ban changed everything. Instead of giving up, he adapted, became a pioneer in Cedar Key's clam farming industry, and built Gulf Coast Golds into one of the area's most respected operations.

But none of that is what made him legendary to me.

Gary Hathcox never measured success by money or recognition. He measured it by people. If someone needed help, he was there. If someone was hungry, he'd hand them fresh mullet. If someone was stranded on the water, he'd stop without hesitation. He believed kindness didn't require a reason — it was simply the right thing to do.

Most people spend their lives chasing bigger and better. My grandfather spent his life appreciating what he already had. Give him an airboat, a cast net, a fishing rod, and the open Gulf, and he had everything he needed. Watching the sunrise over Cedar Key meant more to him than any possession ever could.

Sometimes I think he wasn't just someone who loved the water — I think he became a part of it. He shared its beauty with everyone around him and taught generations of our family to respect it, care for it, and never take it for granted.

There are countless stories I could tell about my grandfather, but every one of them points to the same truth: Gary Hathcox was an extraordinary man. He deserved many more years than he was given.

This website is about making sure his story doesn't end with our family. My goal is to preserve his legacy, introduce others to the values he lived by, and inspire future generations with the life of a man who quietly made the world around him better.

To me, Gary Hathcox wasn't just my grandfather.

He was a legend.

Survived by daughter Tracie · three grandchildren · five great-grandchildren

Gary and Sheila Hathcox left this world together on March 27, 2026, in Cedar Key, Florida, leaving behind a legacy built on love, service, family, and the waters they called home. Married for 57 years, they shared a life defined by hard work, unwavering dedication, and a deep commitment to their community.

Gary Hathcox

Gary Hathcox

Gary Hathcox was born on June 6, 1943, to Jesse and Mable Hathcox. A proud Vietnam Veteran, Gary dedicated many years to Gainesville Fire Rescue, retiring as a Lieutenant after a distinguished career protecting others. Beyond the fire service, Gary was a lifelong commercial fisherman whose connection to the Gulf waters began in childhood. Following Florida's 1998 net ban, he became one of Cedar Key's most respected clam farmers through Gulf Coast Golds. His leadership extended beyond the waterfront when he proudly served as Mayor of Cedar Key in 2002.

To those who knew him, Gary was much more than his accomplishments. He was the kind of man who would stop whatever he was doing to help a stranger. Whether someone was stranded on the water, broken down on the side of the road, or simply needed a helping hand, Gary never hesitated. His generosity wasn't something he talked about — it was simply who he was. He found happiness in life's simplest moments: throwing a cast net, running his airboat, catching mullet, or spending another sunrise on the water he loved so deeply.

Sheila Hathcox

Sheila Hathcox, born November 25, 1949, to Louie and Margaret Delaney, was the only child of her parents and a lifelong source of strength for those around her. A 1967 graduate of Cedar Key High School, Sheila graduated as Co-Salutatorian while serving in numerous leadership roles, including Student Council, Beta Club, Future Homemakers of America, 4-H Club, and as Homecoming Queen. Her love of learning, leadership, and service remained with her throughout her life.

After graduating, Sheila dedicated many years to the Levy County Clerk of Court before retiring. She was known for her kindness, professionalism, and unwavering devotion to her family. She shared Gary's passion for the outdoors, enjoying hunting, fishing, and the peaceful beauty of Florida's natural landscapes. Above all, she was a devoted wife, mother, Nana, and friend whose warmth touched everyone fortunate enough to know her.

A Life Together

Together, Gary and Sheila built a life centered around family, faith, hard work, and community. They leave behind their only daughter, Tracie Hathcox Drummond, son-in-law Franklin "Frank" Drummond, three grandchildren — Franklin Wayne Drummond III ("Trey") and wife Chelsea, Tristen Drummond, and Gary "Tripp" Drummond — and five beloved great-grandchildren: Kelbi Grace Williams, Karter Horace Williams, Tuff Vince Feagle, Stetson Wayne Drummond, and Sadie Michelle Drummond. Gary is also survived by his sister, Dorothy Hathcox Dykes, along with numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and lifelong friends.

Gary was preceded in death by his parents, Jesse and Mable Hathcox, and his sister, Wilma Hathcox Fisher. Sheila, an only child, was preceded in death by her parents, Louie and Margaret Delaney.

Their legacy is one of service, compassion, resilience, and an enduring love for the water and the community they proudly called home. Though they are deeply missed, their lives continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to know them.

Moments

Remembered on the Water

A Cedar Key redfish
A Cedar Key redfish
The Gulf he loved
The Gulf he loved
Airboat at first light
Airboat at first light
Riding with grandpa
Riding with grandpa
Passing it down
Passing it down
Cedar Key sunset
Cedar Key sunset